There was a personal message on Mark's MSN, which caught my attention, and force me to really think about it.
Do you still remember the 1st day you went to school? Or the feeling of the day you walk in the church, dressed in wedding ? or the day you get baptized? or the party that just pass yesterday? the trip you had with all your best buddy? There are so many great and nice memory embedded in our mind, inside our brain, BUT that are all it is...nothing else but just a memory.
What makes a memory more than just something a past, is what the memory hold on now. The character inside the memory, that still tight with you now, the memory become the invisible bonding between 2 or more people. Because it is the thing share with others, then common thing that allow all parties take part, and to remind each others.
There are some bad memory, that also can make people hurt, and it always follow you where ever you are. This bad memory are just a piece of past, but you allow them to become present. Some psychologist, do agree that bad memory is more easier to be remembered by people, compare to the good memory. Do you remember the day you broke up, or the day you engaged? Do you think about the day of your wedding more than the day you found your spouse having affair? This is what the memory hold on.
A good memory is like a sweet inside your mouth, after you finish it, that's all. A bad memory is like a wound inside your mouth, it get you hurt, and worse when you bite on it again.
However, memory is a good thing , GOD put inside human mind. It cheers you up, and enlighten your day, when you shared it together. Although there are more memory forgotten, there are yet more to be cherish.
" Memory is nice, but that all it is!"
Everyone have some memory left behind, and there are more to be forgotten. But, for me, there are more yet to be cherish.Do you still remember the 1st day you went to school? Or the feeling of the day you walk in the church, dressed in wedding ? or the day you get baptized? or the party that just pass yesterday? the trip you had with all your best buddy? There are so many great and nice memory embedded in our mind, inside our brain, BUT that are all it is...nothing else but just a memory.
What makes a memory more than just something a past, is what the memory hold on now. The character inside the memory, that still tight with you now, the memory become the invisible bonding between 2 or more people. Because it is the thing share with others, then common thing that allow all parties take part, and to remind each others.
There are some bad memory, that also can make people hurt, and it always follow you where ever you are. This bad memory are just a piece of past, but you allow them to become present. Some psychologist, do agree that bad memory is more easier to be remembered by people, compare to the good memory. Do you remember the day you broke up, or the day you engaged? Do you think about the day of your wedding more than the day you found your spouse having affair? This is what the memory hold on.
A good memory is like a sweet inside your mouth, after you finish it, that's all. A bad memory is like a wound inside your mouth, it get you hurt, and worse when you bite on it again.
However, memory is a good thing , GOD put inside human mind. It cheers you up, and enlighten your day, when you shared it together. Although there are more memory forgotten, there are yet more to be cherish.
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