LAU TIA MEH - Bridal Night

anyone know wht is the meaning of " LAU TIA MEH".
well, it is a word from Hokkien, meaninig bridal night. where we can have a chance to fool around the bride or bridegroom before their wedding day.
This was the warmth-est bridal night i ever experience, and is the kind of bridal night I desire for my partner in the future as well.
Tonight, we gather together at room 412 to having our dinner together, then have some time to fool around. at about 9pm, they start to practice for the performance tomorrow morning in the wedding ceremony. they singing the song in parts, base and soprano, it was so nice, in chinese we said" heard until oil come out from ears".
at 10pm, this was the peak moment, where Han-yu and other all gather at the other room, they pass their present to Han-yu, and ask her to open 1 by 1. they are so sincere in choosing the present, all 8 kind of couple present: shirt, key chain, phone hang, perfume, cap, sock, pillow wrapper and cups. Han-yu was full with joy and thank in her heart, and all this feeling is shown on her expression.
before everything end , we held together to pray and bless for Han-yu, and her wedding ceremony on the next day.
I am happy to be one of them, to witness and experience such a warmth fellowship. I believe only in Christ , the bonding among us can be so strong. and only Christ can bond us together in HIS name.

lesson: " Doing thing alone is emptiness, doing thing together is fun, doing thing together in Christ is JOY'
" human bonding may be fragile, but bonding through Christ is STRONG"