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Saturday, August 29, 2009

遗忘




安静的日子
原来只是一个梦
藏身在急流与冰冷的低谷
只能选择随波而流

遇见你
或许是命运的安排
没得选择
已经被你拖出安全范围

温床,故乡
葬身回忆,从梦想发芽
漂泊在无定的日子
只能任你左右

我的一生
已经被你占据了一大半
攀附在你的情绪中
因你快乐而安详
因你悲伤而懊恼

卷在你情绪起伏中
是因为我在乎你
即使漂泊浪荡
也不亦乐乎

一个曙光突然照耀
很陌生,原来这就是光
漂泊的日子不再
躺卧在软绵绵的沙滩上
是你把我给忘了
把我遗留在你的缺席

你走了,怎么不带着我?
问题反复旋绕在脑海里

躺卧在你的另一端
看着你汹涌的退步
听着你哭泣的声音
是不舍?是不甘?

我只有安慰自己
你是希望我过安宁的日子
不要我再漂泊浪荡
不要我卷在你的情绪起伏

我只有相信
把我遗忘
是为了我好

也许你不会了解
没有你的日子
不会好过
即时有停泊的港湾
也只能被人践踏在脚下

我只能鼓励我自己
为了你的好意
我一定
一定会好好过


Thursday, August 27, 2009

珍惜生命气息


昨晚出席了一个教会姐妹的守丧/追思礼拜。 其实我并不认识这个姐妹,只是常在祷告会都会听到她的名字。
钟金香姐妹经过了长期与癌症的拉锯战,终于可以卸下她在地上的奋斗, 会到天父的国度,安息在主的怀里了,享年56岁。

每次参与追思礼拜,都不禁让人开始考虑长期逃避的问题-人生的意义。或许,是追思礼拜的凝重气氛,告诉每个来宾, 我们总会有这么一天躺在六方木里面,让来宾们瞻仰容颜。这样的气氛,催逼我们去思考,我们到底要如何过我们地上的日子,好让我们在永恒的日子里不后悔。

圣经说:我们一生的年日是七十岁,若是强壮可到八十岁;但其中所矜夸的不过是劳苦愁烦,转眼成空,我们便如飞而去(诗篇90:10)
我们在地上的日子,是被劳苦愁烦占去了一大半,我们为生活拼搏,为生活买力,为的是过更好的生活;但却忽略了生命的可贵。 这里说,生活并不等于生命。生活是外在的表现,生命却是内在的涵义。
生活可以是事业,学业,财产,权力,地位,健康,; 生命则是家人,朋友,喜乐,富足,平安,公义,永恒,理想。
人可以赚取了全世界,在生活上无忧无虑,甚至可以一手遮天,但若是去了生命,就什么都没有,只能空手归会尘土。传道者说:人在地上日子所努力的,不过归于不曾努力的后人,这人是智慧,是愚昧?竟要掌管未曾努力的一切,是虚空。
所以,人只能为自己而活,在地上好好享受所还拥有的日子,并且要过的丰盛
人的生命既不在我们手中,如果明天就要结束了,你有遗憾吗?你知道你会到哪里吗?
生命如果只有今生,没有永恒,那所过的日子不果是为了短暂的享福,是虚空。
生命如果有轮回,今生担当前世的种,前世的我又不由得今生的我决定;今生的我要为来时的我活着,来世的我却接受我今生的劳苦,却不知来世的我是愚昧,是智慧? 也是虚空。
惟有拥有永恒的生命,才值得我们追求。 活着时因为神的恩典,给予我们生命气息;也因为他是生命的创造主,也惟有在他那里才能找到生命的意义。地上的劳苦,是为了追求永恒的同在,免得落入永恒的刑法。

人在世上追求生活的享受同时,更要追求生命的丰盛,活得有喜乐,有平安,有公义,有爱, 有神。
生命的长短虽不是我们决定,但我们可以选择过的丰盛。
趁着有生命气息,好好为主而活!!在地上的日子才不至于白活了。

My Nike collection

Singapore Nike outlet have a BIG sale last 2 week, my bro- Cyron as the ratail shop designer received an invitation card to the Nike outlet shop.
The sales is range from 10% to 60%, with invitation, special guest can get an addition on 40% of discount on the sales.
meaning if the sales is 40%, Cyron can get a 40% + 40%...is around 64%.....WOW!!

here, he bought 2 items for me...
       


this is Nike Air Jordan, Jumpman XX2 23 Omega

Its been a long time i longing for a basketball shoes, although I'm not a great basketball player. but a basketball shoes is not just a sport shoes, it is a fashion as well. a very comfortable and good looking casual shoes for a man, look sporty. and with the special design of this shoes, its help to lock your foot, prevent the foot from injured especially during playing basketball. some more, the zoom air features, resist the impact make on your ankles and leg, give a very comfortable wear even during running. Well, the only bad thing to say is, it just too heavy....not really suit for jogging..haha.





this is my new windrunner....berry top with metallic silver bottom. Many people say it look like a space costume, indeed it is. a very fashion design and out looking, it will definitely catch the eyes of others. But, for sure, not many ppl can accept it as well. It just depend on taste of art.
personally, I like it. not just because of the design, but the comfortable of wearing. you can wear it under the hot sun, yet doesn't felt hot inside, or u can wear it during raining or cold yet it give warm.Yeah, one more, it is water proof, water will not stick on the nylon and polyester surface. Amazing!
if the cap , it can help to prevent your head from wet during raining.

hehe...this is my 2 new collection of Nike...
actually i still have nike shirt and bag.....and for sure...will keep on support on nike...
who know maybe one day i can work in there...haha!!

邮邮爱- Post card, Post care

生活中,我们都带着一丝希望,希望感受到这个世界的关心。对于我们中的一些人来说,这丝希望是如此重要,因为这已是所有的希望。

In life, we hope. We hope to feel the care of our world. To some of us, the hope is so important, because it has just become all in life.

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邮邮爱是什么?

What is Post card, Post care?

邮邮爱是一项慈善筹款活动,致力于在人与人之间传递关心。邮邮爱邀请并期待你的参与,向需要关心的人,告诉他/她你的关心,无论他与你亲密无间或是素昧平生。

本次邮邮爱的目标是:

一、通过筹款为100多位无生活来源的老人采购过冬必需品;

二、通过邮寄明信片让更多的人感受到来自身边的关心。

Post card, Post care is a charity fund-raising campaign dedicated to pass on people’s care to others. Post card, Post care is now inviting you to participate, to send your care to people who need it, whom you love or whom you have never met before.

This time, Post card, Post care aims to,

First, raise fund to buy necessities for more than 100 old people to sustain in this coming winter;

Second, let people feel the care through receiving postcard from people around them.

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邮邮爱如何运作?

How Post card, Post care works?

本次邮邮爱的运作分为两个部分:

一、我们(即指邮邮爱团队,下同)事先收集旅行途中的风景照片,并制作成明信片进行义卖,对于售出的每张明信片,我们会在旅行途中寄给捐助人指定的人;

二、我们将义卖得到的收入扣除成本后的款项交给天主教大名教会(社会服务中心),由其负责采购棉被、油、米、面、柴火等过冬必需品,送到事先选定的100多位受助老人家里。

The work of Post card, Post care, includes two parts.

First, Post card, Post care team ("We") collect the scenery photos along our itinerary, make them into postcards for charity sale, and send postcards to people appointed by the donator.

Second, we hand the money, income from the sale with the cost of postcard deducted, to Daming Catholic Church (also known as Social Service Center). They will purchase quilt, oil, rice, flour, firewood, and other necessities in winter, and hand the items directly to the selected old people.

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“在2006年的冬天,有一个姊妹给我说他们村的老人,眼睛看不见了,做饭也不能做,多次点上火忘记把锅放上,好不容易找来一点水,由于看不见,水 不能放入锅内,而将火扑灭,老人真的没法生存,我听到后想办法为老人做了眼睛白内障手术,术后我送他回家,才发现在他几十年的土房子里,有一个土台子,上 面竟没有一条被子,我说你的被子呢?

“他说做手术时带的就是,再没有其它的了。

“我说冬天怎么过冬呢?

“就这样。

“冷吗?

“冷!没办法!

“他到冬天都是穿着衣服睡觉。

“他的急需是什么?

“棉衣、棉被、棉鞋、米、面、油、冬天取暖的煤。”

——王爱修,天主教大名教会(社会服务中心)

“In the winter of 2006, a sister told me that an old man in her village went blind. He can’t cook by himself. He always forgot to put the cooker on the fire after he made a fire. He managed to get some water by great effort, but pour the water on the fire instead of into the cooker because of blindness. He really can’t make a living. After I heard this, I managed to have the old man cured his cataract. When I accompanied him home after surgery, I found a clay platform but no quilt in his old house, which he had lived for 10 years. I asked: where is your quilt?

“He said: the quilt I brought to the surgery is the only one.

“How do you live in winter?

“Just like this.

“Were you cold?

“Yes, but there’s no way out of it.

“He slept with all clothes on in winter.

“What does he need most??

“Cotton clothes and shoes, quilts, rice, flour, oil, coal.”

---- Wang, Aixiu, Daming Catholic Church (Social Service Center)

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如何联系邮邮爱?

How to contact Post card, Post care

• 邮箱/Email: postcard.postcare@gmail.com

• 手机/Mobile: +86 13520189934 (黄龙海/Ocean Wong) / +86 13585637955 (刘震) / +86 13564019100 (陆颖)

• MSN: loonhai@hotmail.com / dorianliu@hotmail.com / rain_ying0216@hotmail.com

• Gtalk: postcard.postcare@gmail.com / loonhai@hotmail.com

• 淘宝旺旺/Alipay Wangwang: weiwei5252


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Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Epoxy nanocomposite- processing and characterization

this is my FYP title....Final Year project...
" Epoxy Nanocomposite- Processing and Characterization".
supervise by our timbalan dean, Dr.Azhar Abu Bakar.

I had just went to meet him regarding my FYP title, to discuss and have a briefing on what should I do.

well...basically, this is not a difficult project, neither a new thing in polymer field... there are a lot of researcher had done the similar research for the past few years. Even Dr.Azhar also done the same research with the help of a post-grad student, Dulang...I think he is a Myanmar...So, Dulang will co-supervise me as well on my FYP.

ok....what should I do then??
the objective is to produce a nanosize epoxy filled calcium carbonate by mean of waterbase polymerization.
it involve 2 process, homogenization and curing.
In homogenization, epoxy, harderner and CaCO3 is mix in certain quantity, and stir in ice bath at extreme high speed. The high speed stirring is aims to get a homogeneus disperse CaCO3 in epoxy, these have to be done at low temperature to prevent curing at homogenization step. the epoxy in water base will form emulsion state, which are kind of droplet shape in water.
after that, cure the composite in oven at curing temperature.
theorically, we will get the epoxy composite in powder form, which are claim to be nano size.
and the product will bring to characterization , most often FESEM will be used.
IF this is success, all the epoxy composite are in nanosize, the same process will be try to apply on vinyl ester, to produce a vinyl ester nanocomposite as well....

seen like easy??
but until now, no one yet to successful produce it......
I WILL BE THE ONE!!!

back to school

finally....I'm back...
dunno if got any1 miss me or not.....?? but i guess...no one...!!
I just someone insignificant in class.
Hmm....maybe the one that most give attention on me is, Nadras....a big fat lecturer...Ooopppssss!!
How can i skip class without her knowing??...hope she not even recognize me..

after 1 week, FYP title had come out.
LI presentation poster have to pass up...
a quiz on product design...
a lab report to be rushing...
and....i found out my lab member fail the experiment, bcoz they dint took the length and mass of the extrude..isshhhh....

everything back to normal....life of study...but without study....haha
is a totally different kind of life from working....
hmmm...how to say....I would say study life are lazy life....agree??
or maybe just applicable on me....hahah...



Monday, August 24, 2009

只能献上祷告

地壳裂开,高楼倒塌,
曾经的繁荣城市, 已经沦为废墟;
无数的生命,财产, 深深埋没在大理石地下。
曾经熏烟透气,如今沙尘滔天,
热闹的街道,已被悲哀给吞噬。

我无能为力,只能献上祷告。

洪水泛滥,越堤过界,
居家只剩个屋顶,名贵跑车已变废铁,
成千的人失去居所,上万的财产损失,
脸上的欢笑, 已被哭泣给淹没。

我无能为力,只能献上祷告。

疾病猖狂,瘟疫袭击,
人心惶惶,只能自求多福。
发烧感冒,也能成为刽子手,刀下亡魂过千万,
健康的身体,已被细菌给占据。

我无能为力,只能献上祷告。




穷得只剩下钱

一大清早起身,就从早忙到晚的生活,能有怎样的乐趣?
忙了大半天,回到家却要面对四部冰冷的墙,能有怎样的意义?
忙到肚子饿了,连想找个吃饭的伴都没有,能有怎样的胃口?

一生所忙碌的,换来的也许只是一场空。
赚取了世上的荣华富贵,或许真的只拥有荣华富贵;
却比不上一个小家口的幸福。
穷得只剩下钱,是再好不过的形容了。

最近,在看着这本书“穷得只剩下钱”, 王杨明牧师的作品。
其实还没看完,差不多一半了,开始对生活和生命都有了更清楚地画分,
也慢慢的更清楚生命的珍贵,如何以生命去影响生活,
是生活更是精彩。

这几天,家里就只剩下我一个人,母亲去了马六甲开会。
过的生活就像早五晚七,一大清早起身工作,就开始忙到晚上,当然中午有个小休。
每次晚上回到家,看着冰冷的房子,空无一人,都会有莫名的不安,或许这就叫做孤单吧。
工作忙到累了饿了, 连吃饭都找不到伴,就随便买个面包吃了就算,反正吃也只为了充饥,或者有时干脆不吃了。
还好晚上有时还能找到几个朋友出来闲聊吃饭,不然就是看着电脑吃即食面咯。
有时看着手机,真希望找人闲聊,翻着联络簿,却找不到能闲聊的人。

说真的,这样的生活不好过。
看着这本书就像看着这几天的自己,
钱,赚到了。 然后呢?? 没有下文了。。
生活失去享受,失去自由,失去意义,失去爱。。。

看来,我是真的不适合过单身生活的人了~~~


Wednesday, August 19, 2009

工厂的新产线

原本,只负责产生二氧化碳的工厂,开了新的产线,专门生产“顽痰”。

尝试吸进更多的原料,这工厂就像机械零件脱轨一样,“隆,隆,隆”的,然后很用力的把二氧化碳呼了出来,象是要把整间工厂都搬迁到外面去。 辛苦极了!!

慢慢吸进空气,却也觉得这管道堵塞了,又是还会发出“叽,叽,叽”的声音。

抓不着头的事,到底这新产线怎样操作的?没有原料,却可以不停的出产。 清完了一批货,新的一批又产生了。

救命啊!!!

影子

坯子英雄中的一个对白:光明的地方,就会有影子。

当我终于走出那隧道,进入阳光照耀的城市时,
以为已经摆脱了的黑影,还是一幕一幕呈现在眼前。
或许, 待在影子里太久了,所以还无法适应城市的生活吧;
总是不知不觉地又走回影子里。

这回的影子,像个刽子手。
永远跟着我的背后,却永远都抓不着,
乘我一个不注意时,来个一刀毙命。

电影中,人群里,街道上,
几乎都被你的影子所吞噬,
还有哪里可以让我逃脱呢?

回到隧道 ,就不再有你的影子,
不是因为不存在,只是 。。。被黑暗所隐藏了。




Monday, August 17, 2009

顽固。。。

三通电话, 让我抛下了手上的工作,
临时决定提早。

一通,是个小飞侠的来电。
告诉我, 她病了。吩咐我好好看顾她。 当然也闲聊了几句。
小飞侠感受到了她的身体发热,脸色也苍白, 声音也沙了。
不妨心,所以告诉我。

二通,是个友族顾客。
在我病得闷在被里时接的。
出于关心和爱心, 问我几时才有回来 。
叫我早点回来帮忙 ,因为她真的很不舒服。

三通,她打来了。
问我几时能回去, 说她很辛苦。
听完,不再去考虑太多了,买了车票,做完一些手尾,就上巴士了。

第三通电话时在前两通电话的第二天,
第二通电话之后,我又打了回去,她说没事。

我应该为她的顽固和坚强感谢吗?
还是生气?
她的爱,我是知道的, 怕我担心,所以不说。
可是,我应该是有知道的权利。
我生命中的优先次序,是很明确的,
那个最先重要,我也很清楚。
既然她是比学业重要的,那就跟本没有需要犹豫的空间。

Friday, August 14, 2009

谈情说爱??

已经是深夜的两点钟了,电脑的荧幕还亮着,
手指不停的打着信息,在虚幻的网络世界里与小熊谈着现实世界的人间爱情。

或许冥冥中就有这样的安排,随边聊聊就留到了爱情,看小熊分享他与荔枝王子的故事, 听她说她的爱情观,可以很单纯也可以很成熟。 感觉上小熊就在不停的爬着一幅很高的墙,期待某天能爬入墙内,看看里面的世界。
与她分享我的爱情观,就像把一部机器慢慢分解,慢慢解释,看其来很复杂,其实可以很简单。

爱情- 是乎离我很远,却不停在身边闪出火花。 而我, 像个怕了烧伤的小孩,碰都不敢去碰。
很多人都问:为何还没有找到女朋友。而我每次都很直接的回答:没有人要!!
其实我一直都在等待, 而在等待的过程中,不停的学习及预备自己可以成为他人的良人; 而我祷告神,当我准备好成为良人时 ,就让我的佳偶出现。 所以,等待是我的功课, 不急也不慌张。
有意个人曾经跟我这么说过:我相信, 神所祝福的两个人,终究是会幸福的在一起。 (类是这样 )

我必须承认的是在爱情里,我伤害过,也受伤过;跌倒过,也爬起过; 主动过,也被动过;
挣扎过,享受过,埋怨过,感恩过。。。。。经历了酸甜苦辣。。虽然没有很多的经验,可一次的经历也足够然我学习了。
或许理性的头脑,让我不停的思想,对爱情观建立了很强的基础,对于爱情也不敢妥协或草率。
在我的爱情世界里,有很多的逻辑, 有些极端,甚至一般人无法去接受,却是我觉得不可或缺的逻辑。

理性的说,我的爱情逻辑里有几个首要的方程式:
-婚姻是放在爱情的前头,看不到婚姻的爱情只会迈向另一段爱情。
-委身是爱情的里程碑, 双方彼此的委身, 还有双方于神的委身。
- 以基督为感情的中保,在感情里要在主里不时纪念彼此。
-伴侣是预表神在世上与人的最亲密关系,所以更要让对方感受到爱的实在。
- 爱情,是接受生命中不在单独,而是两人一起;所以凡是都要顾虑对方的需要和感受, 也要彼此坦诚。
- 爱情是把两个不同的圈子连在一起,却不干扰彼此圈子的自由。

简单的说,
爱,就是要让对方幸福快乐, 而且彼此健康的在智,体,灵,群,一起成长。


都在你手中

在所有的混乱中,神仍然在掌权!!

当涵宇的请柬寄到我手上时,在那刻是有这么的一个挣扎。
8/8, 我应该出席大专团契的营会(我是委员之一), 抑或出席远方好友的婚礼。
其实两个我都很想参与, 对我都有不同的意义。
可是到了最后,还是做出了选择, 出席婚礼。

1/8。。。。理大工程分院正式宣告特别假期, 为了面对H1N1的袭击,把学院都隔离起来。
对大家,这应该不是什么好消息 。 为了这原因,原本的mid-sem break 也必须取消, 许多人的计划也必须临时改变 。
大专原本的营会,也因此延迟到十月。
混乱中,能看到神的安排吗? 我看到了。能献上感恩吗? 我献上了。
所有一切都在神的手中,他在掌权!!
我能出席婚礼,也能参与营会。

而且,营会的延迟, 也不是一件坏事,原本担心与 1st year 的orientation 和 PC fair 都与营会撞期, 现在问题都迎刃而解咯。

到了芙蓉,才发现婚礼是在早上举行,宴席是午餐不是晚餐。
所以原本计划拜六吃完宴席,星期天晚上才搭巴士回。 现在又在犹豫,应该留到星期天才回吗?
其实难得来到芙蓉,本应该留下来,与慧仪,俊慈,还有迪华牧师好好聊,可就不懂为何会有冲动想晚上就会去,连小猪也对我的选择莫名其妙。
我很感恩,我星期六晚上就搭了巴士回来。 星期天才有机会参与教会的少年主日(都忘了这回事),听积财传道的信息分享,妇女会的宴席招待, 过后又参与教会的大扫除, 从早上忙到晚上。 虽然很累,但很满足这样的一天。 看到教会弟兄姐妹的同心合力把教会换然一新, 真的很高兴。

神是真的奇妙,是乎在我生命中有他自己的计划, 所有的事情都有他在掌权。 而我, 所能做的, 就是安心的,信靠的, 相信他的带领。

﹙腓力比书4:6-7﹚
『应当一无挂虑,只要凡事借着祷告、祈求,和感谢,将你们所要的告诉神。神所赐出人意外的平安必在基督耶稣里保守你们的心怀意念。』

Sunday, August 9, 2009

小组查经-祷告

因为上星期的特别假期,计划中的 查经- 相信的能力, 无法进行。
为了配合今天的小组活动- 祷告会, 所以特别临时改了节目,
查经课程- 祷告

今天主要探讨一段经文,
路家福音 11:1-14。

基本上探讨了(1)祷告的内容 - 主祷文的教导
                 (2)祷告的心态 - 恒心的祈求
                 (3)祷告的反应 - 神的信实

而我终结了祷告就是:
1- 改变自己,不是改变神
2- 谦卑自己,承认神的主权
3- 放下忧虑, 全然交托神
4- 建立关系,与神和好

Friday, August 7, 2009

LAU TIA MEH - Bridal Night

anyone know wht is the meaning of " LAU TIA MEH".
well, it is a word from Hokkien, meaninig bridal night. where we can have a chance to fool around the bride or bridegroom before their wedding day.
This was the warmth-est bridal night i ever experience, and is the kind of bridal night I desire for my partner in the future as well.
Tonight, we gather together at room 412 to having our dinner together, then have some time to fool around. at about 9pm, they start to practice for the performance tomorrow morning in the wedding ceremony. they singing the song in parts, base and soprano, it was so nice, in chinese we said" heard until oil come out from ears".
at 10pm, this was the peak moment, where Han-yu and other all gather at the other room, they pass their present to Han-yu, and ask her to open 1 by 1. they are so sincere in choosing the present, all 8 kind of couple present: shirt, key chain, phone hang, perfume, cap, sock, pillow wrapper and cups. Han-yu was full with joy and thank in her heart, and all this feeling is shown on her expression.
before everything end , we held together to pray and bless for Han-yu, and her wedding ceremony on the next day.
I am happy to be one of them, to witness and experience such a warmth fellowship. I believe only in Christ , the bonding among us can be so strong. and only Christ can bond us together in HIS name.

lesson: " Doing thing alone is emptiness, doing thing together is fun, doing thing together in Christ is JOY'
" human bonding may be fragile, but bonding through Christ is STRONG"

Cyberview Lodge Resort

finally we reach our destination, where Han-yu going to celebrate her married status, and say good bye to " single " status...haha.. Cyberview Lodge Resort.
well, i not sure how much star grade is this resort, but it definitely give me a 5 star impression. from the counter service, to the hall setup, until I came into my room, everything was so perfect. Especially the room, it was a studio style room with a small living room, a computer provided with internet service (FOC), a small table in front of a sofa bed (win size), a KING size 5 inch bed.Wow...it was so comfortable....I like the shower, the water pressure was powerful enough to give a feeling of doing spa....
Never forget the swimming pool. Although I dint have the opportunity to have a swim, but the view was nice. This resort was a very relaxing place, and suitable for a vacation, to get rid of the business life.

lastly, the most concern thing is the price....hehe..
is less than RM300 per night...so worth!!!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, August 6, 2009

饶恕 Forgiveness

曾经有人这么诠释“饶恕” 这个字:做个了结,忘记过去。
To forgive is to conclude, make an ending.

这是一个很有趣,很特别的诠释, 却也很有学问,很深奥。
This is a very funny and special interpretation, but also a very wisdom interpretation.

饶恕一个人,就是不再追究他的过去,重新接受全新的他。为他曾经对你种下的伤害,做个了结,不再追究,不再提起,
完完全全的把这伤害从记忆中删除。
Forgive a person, is not to track his past, to wholly accept a new him. Make a conclude and ending to all the harm he cause you, and not to mention it again, it is to totally remove the mischief memory from your mind.

唯有当你不再记得这伤害,这伤害才无法造成你的偏见,这样你才能完全地接受他。
Only when you forgotten the harm,it cant cause your prejudice. then only you can totally accept him .

主耶稣也是这样的饶恕我们,接受我们。 他使我们与罪作的了结,使我们与旧我做个了结, 使我们成为一个全新的人, 然后完全的接纳我们。
Our Lord JESUS also forgive us and accept us in this way. HE made a conclude to our sins, made a conclude to our oldies, and made us a " new us", then only he totally accept us.

如果主耶稣没有这样的饶恕我们,那我们的过去恐怕也只会让我们自己在主面前感到惭愧,甚至不敢来到他的面前。
If Lord JESUS haven't forgive us in such way, then our past may only will cause ourselves felt guilty, and dare not to come to HIM.

arriving seremban

its been a long time since the last time i step my foot on this land, Seremban.
I just reach here 1 hour ago, 530am.
Thx to 'Lil Pig" for picking me up at the bus station in the early morning.
well...y am I here?
I got an invitation few month ago , an wedding invitation from Han Yu. She was a good friend since the Isaiah School, but losing contact after that. It was a surprise at first when i receive her invitation ( cz we less contact d), I'm very happy and excited , hehe.....and already make up my mind to come even i have to skip my class.hehe....there are not many chance that we can meet together, and this is a very good time to be together and celebrate for her BIGGEST moment ...

Lesson to learn today??
" Friend are not necessary to be together always, but they share their biggest moment together always."
" Physically close may just a symbols, mentally close could be a value, but spiritually close is the treasure. "

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

surprise call from affin bank

i just get a surprise call from Affin bank, Langkawi bruch manager, Miss Lim...if not mistaken...Guess why are they calling me??
yeah....U all are right....is regarding the blog i just post few hours ago...haha, how efficiency they are. in not more then 12 hours, they track my blog and responce to it.

ok, back to topic..

Miss Lim actually called to apologize on her employee attitude, and explain to me regarding the situation. According to her, the PIC tht i tot is manager, is not really a manager ( maybe just another stuff). Regarding the debit card issue, there are lots of problem found on the card produce on 2008, but new cards had been issue since 2009 and no complain receive yet. I had been told that they will replace a new card to me with FOC ( the previous false manager told that RM15 will b charge on replacement), according to her, problem occur regarding card's quality should be FOC, so i take her advice to use again affin bank debit card.

out of my expectation, she review my previous complain about touch'n go service also. actually, the biggest factor i use this card is due to the convenience of auto reload touch'n go service. but i having problem with this service since I receive this new card, and many complain had been make without any positive responce from both bank and touch'n go cantre. they just keep on saying no problem with them, is the other side problem...so i run both side for twice..then give up d... Miss Lim told me that many problem occur with these service, so they deicde to terminate this service until solution is found( maybe)....so conclusion, the new card that i WILL receive is without t'n g service...

anyway, i am satisfy and happy this time with thier attitude and way of handling my problem. and decide to put again my trust on affin bank.hopefully this time , they wont fail me again.


lastly, a lesson to learn today.
" prevention is better than solution, taking initiation to improve service before problem occur"


Malaysia Affin bank debit card

Had anyone heard of Affin Bank?
well, due to my service in Navy reserve army, I have to open an account in Affin bank, because Malaysia navy is cooperating with Affin bank to manage the accounting,all the allowance and salary is paid through this bank.
I had been using this bank for 3 year, and guess what, i had change my debit card for more then 5 times due to the bad card quality and service. The debit card issue by Affin bank always having the same problems, which the sticker on the card always slip, causing the information on the  card to lose.
When i met the Langkawi brunch manager to complain about my problem, he can only tell me he cant do anything, without any feeling of sorry, or trying to take any initiative to improve their card quality for these years.
Some may think it is the problem with the way i keep the card, that cause the sticker on the card to slip. BUT, i put the card together with others bank card, and only this card damage while others still found nice. I had try to put this card in others place not with others card, but the same problem occur again. I also found that this problem not only happen on me, but also others user, which the bank workers told me.
Without hesitation, and full of unsatisfactions, I had decide to cancel this card today. and the same word from the manager:" we cant do anything"...............

I would say, if this kind of attitude keep carry on in any bank, how would anyone want to invest on it?  think about it........



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