Submission, key to uphold a relationship

" depend on where will he be."

    I am really shock to hear she say this when I asking where will she be after her graduate. A truly submission act of a woman that willing to obey and follow the man.
    This actually allow me to associate it with the words in Bible, Ephesians 5:23 " For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body". It is true that what Paul teach us here is that, woman shall submit to man in a relationship in order to uphold a relationship. BUT, do not forget that man has to do their part as well for the woman to submit themselves.
    Just as the Christ is the head of church. The church need to submit to Christ without any objection, with fully obedience and believe. Why is it so? Because the Christ love the man and the church as Himself, and He even given up Himself for us.
    What can cause a woman to be willing to submit to a man? LOVE! The man shall love the woman just like how the Christ love His church, then only the woman will be willing to obey and follow the man.
    What do you think will happen, if both parties do not done their part? The man demand the woman to obey them yet they do not love them enough to give them confident? The man love the woman but the woman demand all the love from man without obey the man? The relationship will only gone worse. Can you imagine the picture if the church do not submit to GOD? or the picture that GOD do not love the church anymore? It gonna be a great disaster that no one ever can imagine.

    I am not discrimination of gender, but truly I believe that GOD had a plan in creating man and woman, and there is a role for both to play. To keep a relationship in health, some one must to love and to submit.

   Sincerely, I wishing this couple always blissful romance.