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Thursday, November 19, 2009

第一个欢送会。。。 First Farewell



大家都知道我要离开这木薯国了吧。。
要背起我的梦想,带着妮娃娃, 踏足雪花盛季的枫叶国。

今天考完了最后一张考卷,也放下了心中大石。
难得大家都得空的时间,一班主内的弟兄一起来个欢庆的晚餐。

谢谢 nicholas, joshua prakash, bee bing and loong wei.
为我的启程开了第一幕。
我会带着这个祝福到雪花满天的枫叶国,温暖这冰冻的身躯。

很难得大家能一起坐下来,聊个天花地乱,
而且还是用我不熟悉的英文哦。
聊着他人的故事,聊着大家假期的打算,聊着cf 的活动。。。。

这一桌的食物,都很满意,很开胃。
特别是那只虾,只能用一句话形容,“极品”。
认识我的人都知道我最厉害就是吃,能进入我的“极品”名单可是不简单哦!
简简单单的花酒蒸虾,肉食那么的鲜甜可口。
当然,桌上最贵的就是它咯,就连条新鲜的活鱼都要打退堂鼓。

满足,喜乐,感恩, 的一餐。
谢谢大家的招待!!!



Everyone know that I going to leave Malaysia .
To persuade my dream to canada.

finish the last paper today,finally, also put down the hearts of stone.
Since we are all free now, we can have a dinner together among brother in Christ.

Thank you, nicholas, joshua prakash, bee bing and loong wei.
For open the first ceremony for my departure.
I will take this blessing to warm the frozen body in the winter season.

It is rare that we can sit down and have a table talk,
with the English which i'm not so familiar with .

This table of food, very satisfied, very appetizing.
That shrimp in particular, can only be described in a phrase, "Master Piece."
People who know me know that I am the best, is to eat, get into my "Master Piece" list is not simple!
Simply Steamed shrimp with some flouvaring, the meat become so delicious.
Of course,  it the most expensive plate on the table is that, and even fresh fish is not comparable.

Satisfaction, joy, thanksgiving, meal.
Thank you for the hospitality! ! !

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

不是Have To,而是Want

前几天看了一部正在播映的日剧『Real Clothes』
这部剧是讲关于一家百货公司重整女性服装部的故事
在剧里面,女主角被委任为婚纱展的负责人
所以她必须策划整个展览的细节与要表达的主题

在她向上司报告完整个计划的细节之后
上司很平淡的回复她说『好,就照着你的意思做』
当时女主角露出一个喜悦的表情,因为她的上司是个很有要求的人
但是在那句话之后,上司又补多一句『但是很无聊』
女主角当场露出很惊讶的眼神看着她的上司
心里想,刚才你不是讲很好的么?为什么又说很无聊呢??

这时上司解说,在她的报告书里面全都是Have to不是Want
就是说很公式化的配合主题的企划,完全没有自己的想法,所以这份计划很无趣
没错,看看现在我们的教会青年团的管理模式
可以说是Have to而不是Want

我们Have to有灵命的成长
我们Have to所有人都要积极的参与传福音
我们Have to带领新朋友来
我们Have to多多祷告

看到吗,这已经是一个很公式化的
所以一直用旧有的方式去运作
但是如果我们把Have to转为Want呢
当你开始用Want的心态来管理和策划活动的话
那么我们的青年团可以变得很不一样
因为当一个人用Want来思考时,就会加入一些新的想法
而不会依循回以前所用的方式

我们Want有灵命的成长
这时我会开始想,到底要用什么方式才能让现在年轻一辈,能够有很好的灵命成长呢
如果以Have to的方式思考,结果就是,安排多一点的主题/专题等等活动
但是这些活动过于沉闷,就算是成人也未必受得了,更何况是热血一代
或者可以和他们交流,看看他们希望的模式是什么样子的
因为他们会提供给你很好意见的

我们Want所有人都要积极的参与传福音
这是我们常面对的问题之一,如果以Have to的方式来传福音的话
那么就会变成派单张,去一些人潮的地方告诉别人关于耶稣
但是现在年轻一辈的人,对电脑多过对人,所以当然没人愿意参与
可是我们可以用另一种方式来让他们去传福音
可以透过Facebook/Twitter等网络工具,不然就是帮他们找出适合他们自己的方式
把福音传出去,而不是一直逼他们要多派单张,多和人讲关于耶稣的故事
因为生活得有见证,也是一种传福音的方式

我们Want带领新朋友来
想必这已经是所有基督徒的使命,但是我们目前的节目能否适合非信徒呢??
连现今参与的人也觉得苦闷,更何况是非信徒,所以当我们以Want来思考时
就会想尽办法把现有的节目模式转变,变得不止适合信徒,也适合非信徒参加
也可以和团员交流,找出一个大家觉得满意的活动模式
这样事情就可以事半功倍了

我们Want多多祷告
这是基督徒必须要有的,可是每次祷告的时候,都是很公式化的一定要闭着眼睛
所以我们青年团的聚会时间有1/3的时间是在祷告的,可是有个问题就是祷告的人很投入
但是在场的每一位也一样的投入吗??还是他们只是闭着眼睛,但是心不在焉呢??
是否闭着眼睛真的能比较不会分心吗??老实说我是相反的,开着眼睛的我会比较专心
到底青年团里有多少人是会祷告的??

从我参加教会的活动那么久来,我们都被教育要迫切的祷告,但是从来没有人教过我们如何祷告
所以我们很多时候在祷告时,都很公式化的以这句话来作为结束『奉主耶稣的名所求』
其实很多时候我们祷告的内容不是向上帝求的,但却会自然的以那句话作为结束
因为我们是从模仿中学习来的

所以青年团应该教导团员们该如何祷告,而不是每次带领者在前面很投入的祷告
可是团员却只是闭着眼睛去想别的事情,这是没有意义的

最后,我们应该改变我们现有的管理和带领方式
放弃所有Have to的观念和思想,而把其转换为Want的模式.


转载自http://www.i-dreamy.com



Tuesday, November 10, 2009

把握机会,把爱留下


“把爱留下,你今日所留下的一切,能够影响永恒的明天。”
一段从《金灯台》领受的话。

在团契四年了,回头看看才发现很多事情都留着没有作;很多想关心的人都留着没有去关心。
或许人就是要从岁月中学习,走到了尽头才会发现失去了很多;
曾经有很多想做的事都没有踏出那一步去做,结果只留下一个遗憾。
是害怕使我们怯步了吗?
是懒惰让我们松弛了吗?

四年的时间,在团契里还是看到很多的“生面孔”,偶尔路过能打招呼,心与心的桥梁却不曾建立过。
还好,在小组里能找到安慰。 有不错的小男孩和小女孩和我一起玩。
那种关系很难用言语形容,不时连络,但那种信靠却让人很放心。
小男孩和小女孩都很听话,看他们渐渐的成长, 都不能在称他们 “小”了。
还有一个小蘑菇,被放生了。
也许我怕霉菌吧,总是不敢把自己靠近; 又或者我的大胃让小蘑菇不敢靠近我,哪怕有天被我吃了。

应该有些人察觉到了,我最近有所行动,有所改变。
把曾经想去关心的人,却没有付诸行动的, 我都慢慢的补回了。
不止在团契里,也在另一个让我成长的圈子里。
在有感动之际,就快快动手,趁着这颗火热的心还被这句子燃烧着。
做了很多从前都不会做的事,发一些奇怪的短讯,送一些不起眼的鼓励,献上的一点支持;
每给回应都让我有深深的感触。

以前的我,只想做个客旅。
所以都只想像徐志摩的《再别康桥》:悄悄的我来了,正如我悄悄的走;我挥一挥衣袖,不带走一片云彩。
神让我学习的功课来得太迟。
现在的我,只想做个农夫。
只想把爱的种子洒出去,把爱留下,留下一些影响,让这些影响慢慢长大。


“把握机会,把爱留下”


日记 10/11/09

熬了一个晚上的书,原来读书是真的很累人的。
不过还好有 facebook 陪着我, 读一下书, 玩一下商业大亨,就这样过了漫长的夜晚。
三个小室友都昏昏欲睡了,只留下我的桌凳照耀着角落中书虫,
拼命把书里的资讯全吞进去,希望能有好的消化。

早晨的 miss call 提醒我和小熊的约会,相约去吃点心,喝早茶。
也好,让紧绷的脑袋松弛一下。
骑着我得红战车,吸一吸新鲜的空气,人也精神起来。

或许我就是这样的人吧。
有得享受就要尽情的享受,享受过后才来尽情的苦干。
不放弃能享受的机会。
一个早茶,慢慢的骑摩多车, 其实也很写意。

考完了第一张考卷,还不错啦。嘻嘻。
三十个小时没睡的我,对着电脑依然精神奕奕,也许是昨晚的tongkat ali ais 的效果吧。
刚才尝试睡,可是翻来覆去还是睡不着,所以就玩 facebook 咯。

哈哈, 关羽斩五将, 过八关; 我还有三关要过。



Thursday, November 5, 2009

日记 6/11/2009



窗外的鸣响,清风的吹徐,晨光的照耀;
床铺的味道,风扇的强风,手机的闹钟;
都祝福我美好的早晨。

好久没有这样轻松自在的休息了,
一个饱满的睡眠,是一天活力的供应。

一大早起身,就先和最爱我的他聊天。或许太久没有这样深入的聊天,让我今早的聊天特别有感触吧。
昨晚的分享,给了我很多的提醒;原来我渐渐失去和他聊天的习惯了。
很多时候,都是习惯似的问候,寒暄应酬; 有多久没和他好好聊心理的事了?
聊完天,心里充满着干劲, 精神特别好。

骑着我的卟卟车,原本打算到对面的咖啡店来个面包半生蛋,却发现今天没开店。
心血来潮的跑到了陌生的高渊去找吃,哈哈。
随便乱闯的,看到一间还比较多人的茶餐室,就进去了。
叫了杯咖啡(很香的咖啡),还有广东面,大的。
这碗广东面的大让我这个大胃王吃得肚子都有点涨,真的很大,价钱也才三零吉。
很有满足感。。。嘻嘻!

回到房间,打开电脑,还是很不舍得翻开书本;恐怕一翻就必须再次把自己埋在里面。
看看报纸,看看漫画。。生活过得很自在。

写完部落各,就要埋葬自己了。哈哈!!

大家,考试加油哦!!

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

100 fact about guy and 30 fact about girl




Found this article from internet, just wanna share and see how my friend respond on it..hehe..
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1. Guys don`t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer presentable and neat girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn`t understand you, it simply means you`re not thinking the way he is.

5. "are you doing something?" or "have you eaten already?" Are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always thinking about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he`ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go gaga over a girl`s smile.

9. Guys will do anything to get the girl`s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet you parents... let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can`t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is...drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don`t provoke the guy to heat up... believe me... he will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept defeat.

17. When you touch a guys heart, there`s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like, "you know what... uhh... nevermind!" Would make them jump to conclusions that are far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged 'um...' or makes any excuses when you`re asking him to do a favor, he`s actually saying that he doesn`t like you and he can`t lay down a card for you.

22. When a girls says 'no', a guy hears it as 'try again tomorrow'.

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message.

24. Guys hate gays!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about a girl who likes him, but this doesn`t actually mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime... he does.

30. BEWARE! Guys can make a gossip scatter through half the face of the Earth faster than the girls can.

31. Girls are guys weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. It`s good to test a guy first before you believe him but don`t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting.

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they`re not that much pretty.

37. Your bestfriend, whom you boyfriend seek help from about his problems with you may end up being admires by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don`t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy find ways to keep you off from linking with some one else.

41. Guys love girls with brains than girls in mini-skirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl really wants but he would unluckily end up with the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls' height doesn`t really matter to a guy but her weight does.

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship that they become too possessive... so watch out girls!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It`s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially if they have been together for three years or more.

51. A guy have to experience rejection because if he`s too good---never been busted, never been in love and hurt---he wont mature and grown up.

52. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

53. When an unpleasant circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he`s sweating. You`ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he`s going crazy about the girl... he really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he`s just actually saying ''please come and listen to me''.

59. Guys dont really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy started to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there is no such thing as love at first sight, but they court these girls anyway.

64. Guy like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don`t like girls who punch harder that they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl like him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over the romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms... no kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy`s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don`t be snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejections.

73. Don`t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudices and you`ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling that attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don`t comprehend the expression "get lost!" too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them all the more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don`t care about on how shiny their shoes unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they`ll realize they`re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He`s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it show he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he`s amazed on you or he`s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him but when you catch him cheating again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If you have a boyfriend and your bestfriend is also a boy, always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you`re with you boyfriend, all i can say is that you bestfriend loves you more that you boyfriend does.

89. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain... when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him why.

93. When a guy says he can`t sleep if he doesn`t hear you voice even for just one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes make fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has a good intention if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things... but not their hair.

97. If someone says you`re beautiful, that guys likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who over-reacted.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationship.

100. REMINDER: Test a guy first if he`s really the one. Some are just pretending.
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1. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't crying, it means she's crying in her heart.

2. When she ignores you after you've done something wrong, it's best to give her some time to cool down before touching her heart with an apology.

3. A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to 'get over him' after the relationship' s over.)

4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys.

5. When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep into her eyes, she will melt.

6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually not sure how to react to them.

7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often, a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the smiles and stare ok?

8. If you don't like a girl who likes you, break it to her gently.

9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her, leave her alone for a while. If you still treat her as a friend, talk to her.

10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music, poetry, drawing sand writing are ways of expressing themselves (which explains why most girls like writing journals).

11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in anyway.

12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.

13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first time, the girl may act look uninterested during the call. But as soon as the phone is back on the hook, she will whoop with joy and immediately start telephoning her friends to spread the news.

14. A smile means a lot to a girl.

15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her first. Let her get to know you.

16. If a girl says she can't go out with you because she has to study, leave.

17. But if she still calls you or expect a call from you, stay.

18. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.

19. Hearing the words "I love you" is a great reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.

20. After a girl falls in love with a guy, she'll wonder why she never noticed him before.

21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl, read romance stories.

22. When class pictures come out, a girl would first check who is standing next to her crush before actually looking at herself.

23. A girl's ex-crush will always be in her memory, but the guy she loves now stays in her heart.

24. Girls love having fun!

25. A simple 'Hi' can brighten a girl's day.

26. A girl's best friends usually know best what she is feeling and going through.

27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them just to get close to their 'prettier' friend.

28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order.

29. Some girls care about looks, some care about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them.

30. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.
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How true is this??
Hmm..some quite true on me....
from the guy and girl I know, some acting the same way, some doesn't.
their is still some biased on the statement.

so friend.....who do u think about this??
Some said this is the bible of a guy and girl...100% true wor..haha



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Sunday, November 1, 2009

Grace and Mercy

in the movie of " Passion of Christ", there was a screen where Jesus wrote somehting on ground and a woman stood beside Him. a crowed of people wearing the religion costume, put down the stone on their hand and leaving one by one.

this is the verse taken from John 8:1-11.

from this verse, we can see that the group of people that wearing the religion costume is actally the Pharisees. They bring this woman caught on act of adultery to Jesus, wanted to tempt on Jesus.

Here, there are some background of that moment we need to know to understand some conflict here. Why are the Pharisees not bring this woman to the Roman governemnt instead of Jesus for punichment? Adultery is actually not consider a crime on that time, it is a very common thing among Roman Empire. However, Roman Empire had gien the Isrealite to run thier own religion law, except the punishment of death. This is the reason why they bring this woman to Jesus, instead of the Roman government. ( this is also the same reason Jesus is bring to Pilute instead of the Pharisees kill Him by Themself).They want Jesus to condemn this woman on the law of Moses, where this woman should be stone to daeth.)

what should Jesus responce to the Pharisees? If Jesus say this woman should be put to death, the Pharisees can condemm Jesus in front of the Roman government and put Jesus to death for killing this woman. IF, Jesus say this woman should be set free, then He is againt the law of Moses.

just one word, Jesus responce to the crow. " if anyone of you is without sin, let him be the 1st to stone her." . such a briliant responce.
Later, everyone is leaving. and so, Jesus let the woman go.

Jesus have MERCY on this woman.
MERCY is mean not getting what you deserve.
this woman is deserve for a punishment, as follow to the law of Moses.
but. Jesus forgive her. and asking her not to do it againt.

this woman receive GRACE.
GRACE is getting what you not deserve.
do this woman deserve a forgiveness on sin?
None of us deserve the salvation freely!!
is only by GRACE, we are save!!

Jesus threat this woman with mercy and grace, with love and forgiveness!!
how do we treat others in church today?
if a sinner come among us? do we judge them on thier wrong doing? or we forgive each other with love?
IF, you come to church with a heavily heart. is a judgement warmth your heart? or a encouragement and forgiveness warmth your heart?

Let us all learn fmor Jesus.
Love each other, and not to condemn each other.
AMEN!!!

Zopim

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