施比受更为有福

施比受更为有福
It is more blessed to GIVE then to RECEIVE

这段经节，一直都以为是在福音书中，原来是在使徒行传。
Eventually, i thought that this verse should be in Gospel books, but it actually in Book of Act.

也许错觉上都让人认为，只要是耶稣的教导都在福音书吧！
不过，其实有很多都没被记录在福音书，这就是其中一个。
People usually have misconception that what ever teaching of Jesus, should be in Gospel books,
but there are actually lot of teaching not recorded in Gospel books.
This is one of them.

施为何会比受更为有福呢？
Why is giving is more blessed then receive?

如何才能让施比受更为有福呢？
How to make give is more blessed then receive?

我想，应该是心态的问题吧！
For me, it is the matter of attitude.

施，要懂得不求回报，不带动机；
施，要在付出中找到喜乐，得到平安。
Give, shouldn't with motive, nor asking for return;
Give, need to gain joy and peace in giving out.

施的人，感恩因为能力去付出，不需要领受。
施的人，得到的不是物质上的满足，
而是心灵上的满足。
People who give, have the ability to give, not asking of receive,
people who give, gain satisfaction from spirit,
not from the material.

施，不单是物质，也能是关怀，也能是爱；
Give, is not just on material, but also caring and love;

 
这让我联想到，爱人幸福，还是被爱幸福？
是因为去爱人，才感受到爱？ 还是被人爱，才感受到爱？
This make me associate of, to love or be love is blessed?
it is to love, you felt love? or be love, you felt love?

去爱，即使不被爱，
虽然会受伤害，但仍然感受到爱的实在，
也因为它实在，所以才会感受到被伤害，
它的幸福，就在于你认识了爱。
To love, although not be love,
it might hurt,but still sense the actuality of love,
and because it actual, you only will felt hurt,
it's blessed because you know love.


被爱，即使不能去爱，
虽然感到幸福，但却感受不到爱的实在，
也因它不实在，所以幸福的感觉很短暂，
它的悲哀，是没有永久的幸福。
Be love, although not to love,
it still felt blest, but not the concrete of love,
and because it is not concrete, the beatific feeling is short,
it's pathetic because the beatific feeling is not eternal .